Well, most programmers are young with perfect eyes who don't care, so you are probably right.
Oh well.
It seems your inability to see has more to do with your attitude than your eyes.
This has nothing to do with applications. The caring, thoughtful programmers at Microsoft have already provided all the tools necessary to help those with impaired vision. The advice I gave you in the first place was correct, based on the information you provided. As nostra has since indicated, the source of your problem with respect to standard dialogs is in how you've configured the various display aspects of Windows—primarily display resolution and font size. See
Control Panel\Ease of Access\Ease of Access Center.